Can’t believe you don’t think you are worth it?
I have seen women and men repeatedly give into temptation, for one night stands.
One night of useless,meaningless sex.
There is this empty feeling that people have, inside of them.
That emptiness that makes you go home with someone, and give a part of yourself. You say that you don’ t want a relationship?
So you run from what you want?
A one night stand is a reason to hug or touch a person , because you need that human connection.
That fleeting moment is a temporary fix, for what you are missing in life.
There will never be anyone that will admit they are single and lonely.
Single is suppose to be fun, but you are going to the clubs and bars trying to find human interaction?
There is nothing wrong with going out and clubbing, but are you doing the same damn thing every weekend, with the same people?
Will you be doing the same thing in 20 more years?
Don’t know too many night clubs that sale Ensure,Geritol,and give AARP discounts…
When will you realize that the clubs, and lack of realness are dimming your own respect for your potential partner?
Sad, to think you are happy,when you are really sad.
Everything seems funny and meaningless,but you know that its more to life than just the same mundane routine.
Women, men can smell insecurity a mile away.
They know when your alone and need compassion.
You don’t want to come home alone so you go home with him and he takes pictures to show his friends.
So if you think that once you give your body to someone, your now a part of their future?
You are not stupid, but you just don’t know your self-worth…
I am here to tell you that no matter what, Respect You.
Are you “wifey” material or are you a jump off?
He will not take you home to momma.
So what if he adds you to his Facebook friends,it means nothing!
You may find yourself attracted to someone but they have to prove it. If a man wants you to depend on him, then he has to be reliable 24/7 not when it is convenient!
Stay focused, and expect the same respect he will give his mom, niece, or sister.
You can rely on someone but still keep improving you.
If they decide to haul ass, you will still have you!
Love is amazing, but STILL Keep getting you money though!
Keep getting paid and what not…
***messymandella*** loves You!!!
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